General recommendations for a slave To begin with, slavery is always a RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PEOPLE. And like any relationship, it requires an equal degree of dedication and mutual respect. A person who does not respect himself will never become a good slave.Also, do not think that by taking responsibility for the slave, the Mistress will relieve the slave of responsibility for his life, condition and position in society. To begin with, by accepting the collar, the slave automatically becomes responsible to the Mistress in his every thought and step, further, the Mistress's power is not absolute for some reasons, and ultimately each of the partners decides his own destiny.You shouldn't, having accepted the collar, think that now you can not think about anything, since the Mistress decides everything. A good slave is the right hand, assistant and adviser of the Mistress in all her endeavors. The Mistress can sometimes use the mind, experience and skills of the slave.Having accepted the collar, the slave must use all his strength, spiritual impulses, intelligence, will, talents and skills to serve the Mistress, accepting with all his heart the idea that he is property, a thing, but a reasonable and multifunctional thing, and his value is determined not by his status, but by the benefit he brings. A good slave is an active slave, it is better to be punished for excessive zeal in serving the Mistress than to cause discontent with his passivity. Studying To be useful, you need to know your Mistress's interests, habits, preferences in food and clothing, and daily schedule. You need to know what pleases her, what irritates her, what lifts her spirits. A bad slave will wait until all this is brought to his attention. A good slave will try to study his Mistress by all means available to him. A good slave knows his Mistress better than she knows herself.The methods of study are quite broad, from direct questioning to observation. However, it is worth remembering the purpose for which the slave studies the Mistress. It is forbidden to be intrusive, forgetful, make false conclusions, unfounded speculations, or to intrude into the Mistress's personal life without permission. Declension The basis of the relationship is the difference in the status of the Mistress and the slave. The lower the slave "falls", the "higher" the Mistress seems, the better the slave. To create this difference, the Mistress humiliates the slave. I can admit that the Mistress does not always want to bother herself with such actions. A bad slave waits until he is humiliated, and time erases the difference in status. A good slave humiliates himself, and this action is called declination. A good slave knows that he can do everything that is not forbidden, and this leaves room for creativity. He maintains a "slave" posture, speaks to the Mistress in a "slave" tone, invents new ways to humiliate himself with words, poses, actions.Also, the slave can exalt the Mistress in all ways available to him. This is also called declination and is an art that needs to be perfected. An admiring look, compliments - this is an example of such declination. If my slave does not master this art to the fullest extent on his own initiative - I will have to teach him this, which can be painful and kills creativity. Pleasing If the Mistress is forced to order the slave to do everything she needs, she will never feel comfortable. The slave MUST learn to anticipate the Mistress's desires. When the slave acts arbitrarily to please the Mistress or anticipate her desire, and achieves what she wants (pleasure), this is called pleasing. Pleasing is the second art of the slave, which he must perfect. It often happens that the Mistress does not pay attention to the slave, and when she needs something, she does it herself. (Well, she is not in the mood to force the slave to serve at the moment)